On February 2nd I had my beautiful baby girl, Jazmine, 7lbs 30zs.  In addition to Jazzy, I have a 2 year old son, Jonathan.  My biggest concern with having an infant and toddler was how to make Jonathan feel the same amount of love he felt as an only child. 

When Jonathan came to visit me at the hospital, he wouldn't speak to me or acknowledge my presence for 3 hours.  I think he felt I abandoned him.  He eventually warmed up to me but whimpered whenever I held Jazzy.