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Feb 22
2010

My life with a toddler and infant

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On February 2nd I had my beautiful baby girl, Jazmine, 7lbs 30zs.  In addition to Jazzy, I have a 2 year old son, Jonathan.  My biggest concern with having an infant and toddler was how to make Jonathan feel the same amount of love he felt as an only child. 

When Jonathan came to visit me at the hospital, he wouldn't speak to me or acknowledge my presence for 3 hours.  I think he felt I abandoned him.  He eventually warmed up to me but whimpered whenever I held Jazzy.  

 

Sep 29
2009

Importance of Routines for Infants-Toddler

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All parents want to help their children to be both happy and reasonably calm, but it’s more easily said than done. Lots of public parenting goes on in summer. Family groups spend hours at the park or hanging out with friends. These are probably some of the best times of the year for many families. Less rush, fewer demands and looser schedules bring an ease that benefits parents as much as children.

But, watching, I see that even in these easier weeks many parents are struggling with some really basic issues. How could it be otherwise? The average age of first-time mothers has just tipped to the far side of 30. Whatever else they packed into the years before their first child arrived, there probably was little time spent with children. And, even if there had been, spending time with other people’s children hardly begins to prepare you for the awesome task of raising yours.

Listening as well as watching, I see that one of the huge issues for parents of young children is the vexed one of maintaining routines and keeping children relatively calm and happy. We live in a wondrous world that is also rushed, competitive and tiring. We ask too much of ourselves. We feel frazzled. This makes us more rather than less confused about how to treat our very young children. We may also be trying to squeeze in optimum parenting around paid work. No wonder, then, that we often do what seems easiest in the short term, what gives us a few minutes respite or what seems to work even when it really doesn’t.

Jun 07
2009

Work life balance tips

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For most people it is difficult to find a way to take care of their health, have a successful career and still find personal time for family and friends. This inability to find balance exacts a high price on their health – physically and emotionally – and results in a laundry list of ailments from exhaustion, anxiety  to backaches, headaches and colds.

Listed below are  tips on how to establish balance between work and your family:

 

Jun 07
2009

Establishing a budget and eliminating debt

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Let’s face the ecomonomy doesn’t seemed to be improving!!!! 401k’s lost value, home values fell, credit card debt skyrocketed, unemployment, salary and job cuts, etc. 2009 is the year to get your personal financial house back in order.

Listed below are actions my family have implemented over the past year:

Cutback or eliminate Credit Card Usage
Tuck the plastic away and pay cash. Yes, cash. It’s that paper and coin stuff in your wallet or purse. Become friends again with George, Abe and Andrew. If you aren’t a cash-carrying fan, use your bank debit card. You’ll be less likely to spend the extra $5-$50 if you know it’s coming directly out of your bank account.

Create a Budget
Strange as it may seems, many people don’t know where their money goes each month or live by a budget. I have an awesome electronic budget I can share with you. Start by documenting what you spend every day for a month. Track every penny from the electric bill to tipping the parking attendant. Once you know where you spend, you can start making adjustments. Be realistic and be ready to cut things - even if it’s for a month - to see if you really miss it.

Make a Commitment to Know and Improve Your Credit Score
If you don’t know what your credit score is, you need to. It’s like knowing your weight. If you don’t know what the number is and set a goal, how will you know when you get there? Find your credit score using sites such as MyFico which is free and provides you with a full credit report. Improving your credit score by paying bills on time and lowering debt will save you money in the long-run by being rewarded with lower interest rates. Tip: Mark your calendar to order a credit report every six months to track your progress.

Pay More Than the Minimum
If you are only making the minimum payment on accounts, not only are you paying more in interest but you aren’t taking the opportunity to improve your credit score. Try and pay an extra $10-$15 on credit cards and if you are extremely disciplined, try and pay an extra 5-10% on your mortgage payment (if not each month, every few months). Over time these extra few dollars can save you hundreds if not thousands in interest.

Create Debt Reduction/Elimination Payment Plan
1. List all of your non-mortgage debts in order of smallest balance to greatest with the minimum payment on each. I also list the interest rate on each. If you have two similar balances,  list the highest interest rate account first.

2. Determine how much you can pay towards your debts each month. Make the minimums on all of the accounts except for the first account (smallest balance) on the list. Put any and all extra money towards this account. Maybe it’s an extra $50 a month.

3. Once the first debt account is paid off, take the money (minimum payment + extra) being paid on account #1 and apply it to what you were paying on account #2.

4. Repeat until all accounts are paid off. It’s quite simple to do and will provide motivation and a great deal of satisfaction in addition to saving you money! More for you, less for the credit card company.

Create “Found Money” Situations
Maybe it’s a garage sale, selling clothes at consignment shops or Dynamicmom. Maybe it’s finding a job on the weekend or a freelance opportunity. Make 2009 the time to earn some extra income to apply to your debt plan.

Contribute the Maximum to Retirement Plans
The stock market is in the tank but we know it will come back so why not buy when stocks are on sale? Invest in yourself and put the maximum you can towards retirement. If your company has a 401(k) contribution match - take advantage of the free money. Don’t forget to contribute to your IRA too!

Start an Automatic Savings Plan
Even if it’s $25 a paycheck, put it aside in an ING (ING is great an offers a higher rate than banks. No overhead as it is online banking)savings account. Having it set aside for emergencies will provide a great deal of comfort.

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